Avoiding "pending approval" ?

Now and then a forum post that contains an url is trapped by some auto-moderator function that sets a status of "awaiting approval". Approval routinely takes 3-4 days, while my post-on-hold is only visible to me. I have observed this to happen when my own posts contains a foreign link, a link pointing outside the capture one domain. 

Yesterday I commented on a spam message https://support.captureone.com/hc/en-us/community/posts/5189205941149 that did not include a link at all. It was not trapped and put on hold for approval.

That spam post was later edited, and guess what: a foreign link was inserted. It looks like posting in two steps is the way to go: Submit post and then edit.